Excitement, trepidation, relief; the annual return to school is a time of mixed feelings for students and parents alike. When one of my children is feeling anxious about leaving home for a new experience, I like to revisit The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn and illustrated by Ruth E. Harper and Nancy M. Leak.


Little Chester Raccoon is afraid of his first night at the forest school, and begs to stay home with his mother. He yearns for his freedom and familiar pastimes. Mrs. Raccoon lovingly reassures him, but when Chester remains doubtful she piques his interest with an old family secret: The Kissing Hand.

Showing him how it works, Mrs. Raccoon plants a kiss on the palm of Chester’s hand and wraps his fingers around the kiss to keep it safe. She tells him that whenever he needs a little love from home he can open his hand and press that kiss to his cheek, and know that his mother loves him. Chester is thrilled and confidently goes off to school; but not before returning the gift and offering his mother a Kissing Hand as well.

If this book comes close to being a little too sentimental, it can surely be forgiven for its gentle treatment of very natural emotions. Chester’s misgivings and his mother’s wisdom are universally recognizable, and the tender moment when she watches him scamper away to new things will echo in any mother’s memory. The final illustration of all the young animals at school is a triumph.

With vibrant, glowing illustrations and a speedy resolution, The Kissing Hand is a comforting choice for toddlers through the early grades. The tradition itself is easily introduced to the morning ritual if you so desire, while the theme of unconditional affection will also support children through other difficult separations; long-distance grandparents or a parent traveling for work or deployment, for example. Any family member can become a part of this cherished routine.

This short, simple story is just the right thing, not only for uncertain young scholars but for their parents as well. While parting can be hard and emotions tug the heart every which way, a story like this both affirms and calms those feelings into a sweet and meaningful family moment. If you’re feeling teary-eyed as the school bus rolls up, you might try a little Kissing Hand magic yourself.

If you liked this book you might also enjoy: The Runaway Bunny by Margaret Wise Brown and illustrated by Clement Hurd